long story short i am changing from joint custody of my child to giving my ex full custody and me visitation. i would like to join the navy, but i dont want the courts to think it is the only reason i am changing custody (u cant join if u have custody of a child). has anyone been thru this or have any advice? thanks
When giving custody to my ex, should i inform the courts i plan on joining the navy?
You are NOT allowed to give up custody to enlist in any branch of the military.
You can do a caregiver and a financial plan and go reserves
But giving up custody for military enlistment purposes is forbidden
BUT if you are determined on this just let the courts know that you feel it is the child's best interest to be with your ex.
This is tough I know. Kinda been there...
When giving custody to my ex, should i inform the courts i plan on joining the navy?
I would make it clear that those are your intentions.. your tactics like you are doing this for the betterment of your child.. to give your child a better life.. and then when you go back for joint custody it will look good for you
First, if the ex has full custody you will have to pay child support. It would be best if you reach an agreement as to the amount before you go to court to give up custody. If your ex has a smart attorney, they will go along with you and accept full custody. THEN they will turn around and hit your for a bunch of child support. You need to protect yourself and set the dollar amount at the same time you give up custody.
You might mention you are going into the navy, which will make the child eligible for Tricare medical coverage. That is a very big benefit to the child and it should be counted as part of your child support payment.
